Develop a mature concept of love.
For many people, love is a breathless romantic glow.
Which they expect to have emotional needs satisfied.
Some people needs this kind of attention more.
This is not love, it is dependency.
It is a feeling that do not last. It changes quickly as the mood change, and if this feeling vanish, even temporarily, it is easy to end the relationship as some people will say "the fire has burn out, there is no more love."
A 'matured' love is when your partner's welfare and happiness is much more important than your own; as someone said,
"real love is the accurate estimate and supply of another's needs"
If someone else say that, they do not love their spouse anymore, that they do not have any feelings towards them anymore,
That someone should "Act as though you love your spouse, whether you think you do or not.
The important thing is how you act, and not how you feel.
If you act upon kindness and consideration, you may be able to save your marriage.
This is probably the best method for those who are in an arrange marriage.
Understand them, this is the first secret.
Have a nice Wednesday everyone! =D
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