No waiter, then you take it yourself.

I eat lunch at a small coffeehouse where the customer orders and leaves his name.

They call you when your order is ready.

One day I heard the chef call: "Jill, your lunch is ready."

Then, louder: "Jill, come and get it."

And finally - to the applause of everyone in place:

"Jill! Speak now or forever lose your quiche!".

*quiche is a type of food*

Hahaha, this is a true story submitted by John, from the states. 

Have a nice day ahead !

Second Secret for a happy marriage!

Work on communication constantly.

The title speaks for itself.

Couples, married or not, have to set aside a specific time in a day to communicate, to talk about plans, problems, grievances, misunderstanding and so on.

Once the habit of sharing things verbally is established, the marriage becomes much more resistant to stresses and strains.

Morning people! Have a nice day ahead! Talk to your partner! =D

First Secret for a Happy Marriage.

Develop a mature concept of love.

For many people, love is a breathless romantic glow.

Which they expect to have emotional needs satisfied.

Some people needs this kind of attention more.

This is not love, it is dependency.

It is a feeling that do not last. It changes quickly as the mood change, and if this feeling vanish, even temporarily, it is easy to end the relationship as some people will say "the fire has burn out, there is no more love."

A 'matured' love is when your partner's welfare and happiness is much more important than your own; as someone said, 

"real love is the accurate estimate and supply of another's needs"

If someone else say that, they do not love their spouse anymore, that they do not have any feelings towards them anymore, 

That someone should "Act as though you love your spouse, whether you think you do or not.

The important thing is how you act, and not how you feel.

If you act upon kindness and consideration, you may be able to save your marriage.

This is probably the best method for those who are in an arrange marriage.

Understand them, this is the first secret. 

Have a nice Wednesday everyone! =D

Six secrets for a happy Marriage!

Hello peoples! 

I am quoting this secrets from "Dynamic Imaging" by Norman Vincent Peale.

A triumphant, rewarding, lifelong partnership is possible.

"Maybe"
This dreadful words only brings trouble in our life if we do not have a positive mindset.

It cause us to doubt, and thus losing faith and trust. It is particularly harmful to marriage.

Maybe I've made a mistake. Maybe i've married the wrong man or woman. Maybe I'm becoming more matured and my partner is still childish. Maybe I'd be happier married to that guy or girl.

Maybe I'd  be happier not married.

With all these 'maybe' the marriage is bound to fail. This has a very negative imaging.

A young girl, once say that her husband, Tom, who is a medical student, was neglecting her. He studies day and night, they aren't spending time together.

Finally she say, "I do not know why i married Tom. There are other guys who would die for me is asking me to marry them, but i turn them down. Maybe i made a huge mistake by marrying Tom."

As we examine this case, she is doubting their marriage. 

The only maybe to use is,

"Maybe I can think of a new way to be loving and supportive of Tom today."

We have to use maybe in a positive way to work things out.

It is always easier to think negatively then positively.

But remember, "No Pain No Gain."

I will share with you the Six secret for a happy marriage.

I will elaborate each point from time to time.

1. Develop a mature concept of love.

2.Work on communication constantly.

3. Learn how to defer gratification.

4. Take responsibility.

5. Learn to compromise.

6. Practice the art of appreciation.

Stay with me guys. 

Have a wonderful day ahead.! =)

Choices!? Do you have it or not!?

Encountering the item "Choice of Vegetables" on the menu of a hotel dining room,

my husband and I asked the waitress what the vegetables were.

"Asparagus," she replied.

"But what is the choice?"

"Do you want it or not?"

Hahaha, seems legit!.

Have a nice day peoples! =D